January 11, 2012

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The Ramifications of Losing Your Church Building

Seven churches that left the Episcopal Church to join the Anglican Mission in America are now being forced to give up their property. A judge ruled that the diocese of the Episcopal Church owned their buildings and land rather than the churches themselves. So now these congregations which left their diocese and the Episcopal church over issues regarding homosexual clergy and same sex marriage, will now have to decide if they will appeal the ruling or start making plans to find a new home.

There are some really interesting ramifications of this ruling. First there is the issue of having to vacate your church building and start over. Some of these churches have been in these locations for a very long time and have very large congregations. This isn’t just a matter of going over to someone else’s house. This is finding a space for thousands of people to worship each week. As a pastor this is a logistical nightmare that I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Second there is the issue of what does the Diocese do with these buildings. They can probably put small congregations back into the existing buildings or maybe try to start new ones, but what are the long term prospects for that? The Episcopal Church is not exactly renowned for church planting, neither is it growing at this stage.

It is very easy to imagine the diocese needing to sell this property in a short period of time because they don’t want the cost to maintain it. So will the churches that are being forced to vacate try to buy the property from the diocese? Will the diocese even consider this? Would they sell the buildings back churches that have left them? Will bitterness prevent this?

There are so many interesting questions stemming from a terrible situation. This is a situation that should sadden us all. This is the Body of Christ being broken by sin. This is the unity of the Spirit being ripped apart by a battle for the heart of the church. This is sad. The pain and brokenness of this body being ripped apart is far from over. I simply pray that God will give grace to all involved and that somehow his Spirit will being able to repair the rending apart of his body, not just here but throughout our world. I pray that we will no longer need the courts to mediate our disputes as a the Body of Christ.

January 10, 2012

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A WHOLE New Life Week 1

Sunday we started our new worship series at DCC focusing on what it means to be made whole by God. For the first couple of weeks we are looking at the idea of spiritual balance as a route to wholeness. The most important part of that balance being intimacy with God.

I especially talked about the differences between knowing about God and knowing God. Too often our participation in religion has led us to exchange knowing God with knowing about Him. We think our participation in the systems of religion is the same as having a direct connection with our creator. When that occurs it is a guarantee that our life will be incomplete rather than whole and assuredly out of balance spiritually. How balanced is your spiritual life? How much intentionality is focused on cultivating intimacy with God in your life?

You can listen to my sermon or download it here. 1.8.12 – Intimacy with God

Here is another trailer we created for the series just to get excited about what God is doing in our midst. We do like to have fun.

January 9, 2012

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Mondays are for Tebow Ramblings…

A bumper sticker I read when I lived in Colorado, “If God’s not a Broncos fan then why are sunsets orange?”

I am sure there will be a slew of new ones that say, “If God’s not a Broncos fan then why does Colorado run on Tebow Time?”

The hoopla around Tim Tebow, his polarizing play at quarterback and his faith is truly amazing. As soon as the Broncos stunning victory over the Steelers was complete yesterday I took to the social media world to watch the explosion of Tebow related commentary. There hasn’t really been a phenomenon in sports quite like this before, partially because of the explosion of social media.

I haven’t written about Tim Tebow much, but here are my thoughts.

On Tebow as a Professional Quarterback

He isn’t a very good quarterback, but he is a good football player. He is the type of guy you would want to play with and he is certainly a guy I root for, regardless of his faith. He is unorthodox, unpolished, and unrelenting. That is a combination I actually enjoy. He is a quarterback that struggles to make routine plays, but in the right circumstances seems to will himself to make the big plays at the biggest moments. In basketball people like Bill Simmons talk about the irrationally confident shooter. He is a player who doesn’t realize his limitations or how good he really is. He thinks he is way better than he is. And yet with the game on this line this guy will take the biggest shot of the season, instead of passing to his much better teammates, and he often makes it.

That is what Tebow reminds me of. He is the irrational confidence quarterback. He overthrows the running back on a screen pass seemingly half the time. He can’t roll right and throw the ball. He throws the ball four feet short of his receivers regularly. And yet with the game on the line he makes plays that he has no business in making. I like that about him.

 

On Tebow as an Evangelist

All of those thoughts about Tim as an athlete aside, I think of him as a very public Christian in very different ways. Much has been made of Tebow’s outspoken faith, which is regularly on display as he kneels down to pray after big plays or big wins. In fact Tebowing – dropping down to one knee in random public places is a silly fad these days. So what to make of Tim in regards to how he handles his faith publicly?

I have great appreciation for the way Tebow tries to work his faith into his whole life. He is not a part time Christian. He doesn’t compartmentalize his faith. He is a Christian at all times, in all places, no matter what he is doing. That is something that really should be celebrated by us as a church. There are a lot of public figures that are Christians of some ilk and yet no one knows because their faith is compartmentalized and hidden from view. No one can accuse Tim of being ashamed of his faith.

His expression of his faith, however, leaves me something to be desired. Tim Tebow’s public statements about his faith and his displays of faith in sports are very similar to how I thought about evangelism when I was 17-18 years old. I used to write Bible verses on my wrists when I taped them up before wrestling matches and I used Philippians 4:13 as my theme verse. I would chant it to myself almost as a mantra before I went out to wrestle. I felt this need to remind all people at all times that I was different than them because I was a Christan.

The NFL is full of Christian men. It is full of men who run ministries, go on mission trips, support their churches and have strong faiths. There are certainly other Christians out there that will talk about their faith and do so when given opportunity. Growing up with God’s coach, Joe Gibbs, I saw a great example of how a great coach could live out his faith in transformational ways without being renowned for it. His quiet faithfulness, integrity, and ethos have changed many lives. I head Mark Schlereth, former Redskins and Broncos All-Pro lineman tell my youth group about how Gibbs led him to faith his rookie season in the NFL. Gibbs is renowned in the NFL for the quality of who he is and his coaching acumen. But he never put his faith on display in quite the same way as Tim Tebow.

That isn’t so much a criticism of Tebow as an observation. I just think there are more effective ways of demonstrating our faith to the world than dropping to one knee after a big play. Now, if Tim began to give God credit and glory after bad plays as well as good ones, losses as well as wins, failures as well as successes, then I would be a much bigger supporter of his displays. We need not confuse the world at any time about God’s involvement in this world. God doesn’t care whether or not the Broncos win a football game. God’s kingdom is breaking into this world to redeem all of creation. I don’t question whether or not Tim Tebow is working towards that redeeming work, he just doesn’t do it on Sundays when he throws a football.

 

January 6, 2012

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Who are you? Finding identity outside of our jobs…

When you tell someone who you are, what is the first thing you tell them? For most of us, Americans at least, the first thing we tell people is our job. I tell people I am a pastor, then maybe that I am married and I am a dad. When I meet new people, one of the first questions I ask them is, “What do you do?” What we should ask instead is “Who are you?” As Mike Breen’s work reminded me again recently we are human beings not human doings.

At the heart of how we describe ourselves, and how we evaluate others is the reality that we define our worth through what we produce. We are work production and work oriented people. The things that define us most are the things we do. This should cause us some pause and question. This Chevy commercial is a great example.

Does this ever strike you as strange? Who I am is not defined by what I do for a living. My worth is not attached to a title or a role I play. Who I am is defined by things far more important than that. First and foremost I am a child of the living God. The God who created this world knows my name, calls me son, and smiles upon me. His love for me is so overwhelming and extravagant that he has not only forgiven my sins, but came and lived as a man, died and rose again to enable me to be forgiven. This same God has now chosen me to be an instrument of his grace upon this earth as his kingdom work of redemption takes place. Above all else this defines who I am.

I am defined by my love for family. I have such a debt of love not only to God but to the amazing family God has blessed me with. My whole life is lived in response to the love I have been shown. This defines me.

I have many friends that I give myself to the best that I can as much as I can. I am faithful, prayerful, supportive and generous with them. This defines me.

I gospel (Yes that word can be a verb). I use my life to proclaim the story of Jesus as Lord and Savior. This defines me.

My job is a huge part of my life, but how much I produce there does not define me. The number of people at our church, the size of our building, the money we bring in or how many people know my name does not define me.

God has no desire for us to be defined by what we do. He desires to give us an identity based on who we are as his children. So let me ask you again, “Who are you?” Who does God say that you are? How much of your identity is wrapped up in what you do instead of who you are? There is great freedom in finding our identity in Christ alone.

Let’s choose to be free.

January 4, 2012

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A WHOLE New Life

This Sunday at Duneland Community Church we are beginning a new series called A WHOLE New Life. The focus of the series is in cultivating God’s wholeness in our lives.

Coming into 2012, all of us can look at our lives and recognize that we have parts of our life that are clearly broken. Somewhere inside of us there are parts of us that simply are less than they should be. This is about our souls, our relationships, our bodies, our jobs, our families, every part of our lives.

We only find completeness in God. Only our creator can pick up the broken pieces of our life and make them whole again. Come and join us from January 8-February 19 as we seek A WHOLE New Life.

January 2, 2012

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Mondays are for 2012 Ramblings…

Happy New Year! We are going to kick the new year of properly with a look ahead to 2012, a look back on 2011 and the top ten posts of the past year. Let’s do it….

A 2012 Focus

Every year I come up with a theme for the year. This past year my theme was wholeness. It was a good theme and despite my best efforts sometimes, I experienced more of God’s wholeness in 2011 than any other year of my life. I learned to listen to God better. I learned to respond to God better. I learned to love my wife, family and church better. God’s presence alone did that.

I am really excited for the start of 2012. This is going to be a big year, I can just feel it. With the excitement and potential of 2012 I am setting my focus this year on God as Lord over all. This year I want to understand the reality of God’s power and sovereignty in new ways. I want to experience the transforming presence of God in new ways. I want to be bold. I want to take risks. I want to be overwhelmed by what I see God doing around me this year. I want to see the Kingdom of God where I have been blind to its work before. Eyes wide open, I am plunging myself into the power of God this year. I have no idea what that is going to mean for my life, but I feel so compelled to seek this out that I just can’t live this year any other way.

To go with this theme is my song for the year. It is Take Heart by Hillsong. It is awesome.

Thinking back on 2011

Looking back on 2011 I have to say that it was a good year, especially since it was such a dud of a year. Worldwide this wasn’t a great year. For many Americans the most hopeful moments of the year were the death of Osama Bin Laden and Muammar Gaddafi. If these are moments we are celebrating, you know it wasn’t a banner year for humanity. Good things did take place in 2011, the Kingdom of God is still advancing, but in all 2011 won’t go down as a year we all look back on fondly.

Personally, however, 2011 was a big step forward. I have more clarity about my role as a pastor than I have ever had before. I am better at communicating with my wife than ever before. I feel that God has pushed my preaching, prayer life, and care for my people to a place I have never known. The difficulties of our world are probably a big reason for the growth I experienced this year. The burdens of our people who are out of work, struggling to make ends meet, dealing with broken families, and grieving the loss of loved ones has pushed me to rely on God more and more. When I speak about trusting in God to people who aren’t sure if they can pay their medical bills or mortgage, I better mean it. The ugly realities of a broken world have seemed more real to me this year and inversely the beauty of God has been more apparent.

So thanks be to God for 2011 a wonderfully ugly year in many ways.

Best Posts of 2011

I never got to post a look back at the top blogs of 2011, so here are the ten best posts I feel that emerged from this blog last year.

In no particular order.

Tuesdays are for Wonderfully Garish Football Uniforms

The End of Evangelicalism Part 3

Thoughts on Osama Bin Laden and Justice

Christians and the Death Penalty

Holy Sex Life, Batman!

I can’t not post about the Virgin Diaries

The Theology of Harry Potter

What Kurt Cobain Taught Me About Preaching

Sandwich Showdown – JJ’s vs. Subway vs. Quiznos

Mondays are for Same Sex Marriage Ramblings

December 22, 2011

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Holy Sex Life – Part Three (In case I left anything out)

What does holiness have to do with our sex life? (Find parts 1 and 2 of this conversation here)

Here are some of the difficult questions about our sexuality that I haven’t addressed. What about sex and single people? What about celibacy? What about homsexuality? What about abuse inside of marriage? What about very different levels of sexuality or sex drive within a marriage?

There are certainly more questions than that left, but those are some of the pressing ones that I can think of. Some of those are connected and some kind of stand alone. So let me just take them one at a time and share some thoughts. Continue reading…

December 20, 2011

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The 10 Guys You Meet Playing Church League Basketball

There is a place where all men are made equal before God. They come from far and wide and there they do battle to honor God. They meet with pride in their hearts and illusions of grandeur dancing in their head. This place is church league basketball and it is a place of wonder. In my years playing church league basketball I have found that there are certain guys who you see on every team and in every league. They are the 10 guys you meet in church league basketball. Let me introduce them to you. Continue reading…

December 19, 2011

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Mondays are for Christmas Ramblings…

Having lit the fourth candle of Advent, the moments until Christmas are but few. Only a couple of days remain until we experience the climax of all our preparation. I hope mine/your preparation has been as much spiritual as holiday driven. But in these final days leading up to Christmas our lives are certainly busy and full. So here are some ramblings to help us through the week.

Arthur Christmas Rocks, of course – We took the kids out on Saturday to see Arthur Christmas. (How could we not when they name a movie after us.) It was instantly added to the Christmas movies we watch every year collection. It was really well done, funny, and had some interesting commentary that would go well in a sermon. As a matter of fact I am announcing right now that next Christmas I am using clips from this movie in my sermon.

Debating whether or not I care how unBiblical our idea of Christmas night is – The image we have of Mary and Joseph rushing to Bethlehem, finding nowhere to stay, ending up in a stable, barely getting there in time for Jesus to be born, shepherds and Wise Men crowding around to get a glimpse, is just not a terribly Biblical image. But I can’t decide whether or not I care. They were probably in a room of a house where animals also stayed. That would have been typical. The text doesn’t say that they go there and had the baby the same night. The Magi probably didn’t show up for several years. There is a part of me that wants to teach a more realistic picture of the Nativity scene, but the other part of me thinks that the image we have serves its purpose. We get the idea and that is probably enough. Thoughts?

Were there flurries in Hell yesterday? – The mighty Packers lost a game. The inept Colts won one. The Redskins played a pretty good game and won in NY. There was definitely something in the air yesterday. If Tim had Tebowed Tom Brady I might have thought that some sort of signs and wonders were being done in our midst. Regardless it was good to see the Skins do something worth watching. And it is always good to see the Giants stink. Now it is time to start scouting College QBs not named Andrew Luck and find one to replace Sexy Rexy next year.

Jesus visits Tebow – If you missed the SNL skit with Jesus visiting Tim Tebow after a Broncos game, you can catch it here or on Hulu. It is pretty funny. Some good commentary here. I could use this in a sermon.

I am totally digging Christmas on Sunday – When I realized that Christmas was on Sunday this year a part of me was bummed at first because I knew that I would then need to work on part of Christmas day. But then I thought more about it and the rhythm a worship service would add to our Christmas and I have gotten really excited about it. In the middle of opening presents and celebrating Christmas we will go to church as a family, sing carols, hear the word of God and go to the Lord’s Table together. That sounds like a perfect Christmas to me.

Those are my ramblings for today. Stay tuned this week for part three of a Holy Sex Life and my look back at 2010 2011..

December 13, 2011

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Holy Sex Life – Part 2 (The How To Section)

What does it mean to have a holy sex life? (If you missed part one of this conversation you can find it here.)

In the first part of this post I talked a lot about the design of our sexuality, its brokenness and its redemption. My dear friend Maggie rightly suggested that my second conversation really needed to be about the day to day details of a holy sex life. Here is her suggestion from Facebook.

I rec you do post #2 and talk about the practical aspect of living out a holy sex life. Lots of people have know idea what that means. How about navigating the mundane, the ups, the downs, the with-holding, the failure, the over-weight, the over-worked, the tired, the can’t get enough…blah, blah, blah. Give the details. People need them…not personally, but seriously how are we expected to live in such a way? People do not really know. Oh, porn too. Talk about porn, drinking and flirting w/ the neighbors wife/husband. If you want…just a suggestion. I think it would be helpful for many.
Maggie is right on with some of the really practical aspects of figuring out what a redeemed sex life looks like. Let’s just start with the baseline thought that most of us have no idea what one looks like. We haven’t experienced much redemption in this area, had much instruction or had positive examples to imitate. I would include myself in that statement. But this is something that I have thought a lot about (insert joke here about me justifying thinking about sex a lot by adding a redemptive element to it) what this looks like and I have some practical suggestions. Just a warning, this is going to be honest and straight forward. Continue reading…
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